I started writing this post a little over a week ago – before Trump became ill, before the debate, before Amy Coney Barrett was nominated. I was writing a post about the emotions that we are all feeling - anxiety, stress, depression. I wondered, what do we do with all this chaos? How do we keep a steady course even though the pandemic is raging around us, the environment is in flames, racial reckoning is taking a toll on us and our politics make it a challenge to love our neighbors? One week later these questions are even more pronounced, and we are more unsettled than ever.
I was going to talk about spiritual practices to reduce anxiety, but it seems to me that before we can talk about relieving anxiety, we need to acknowledge where we are at. The world we live in seems to be far from God’s Kingdom and careening off the rails. Things are messed up and we need help. Fortunately, the Hebrew scriptures provide a model for reaching out to God in the midst of turmoil and distress. The psalms are full of the voices of people pouring out anger, frustration and despair to God. “Where are you God?”” How could you let this happen?” “Destroy our enemies.” “Save us.” I think that God wants our honesty and can handle our complicated emotions. It is noteworthy that after the psalmist rants, rages and begs, almost all of the psalms of lament end with praise for God. It seems that after we let go of all that negative energy, we are more spiritually free and in a better position to acknowledge that we don’t have all the answers and to let God be God.
I invite you to open your heart to God and write your own psalm of lament. Here is mine:
Blessed are you LORD God, creator and sustainer of all that is.
We come to you knowing your special concern for the poor and the oppressed, the
migrant, the homeless, the sick and suffering.
We come to you knowing your delight in all that you have created,
the creation that you called “good.”
We come to you as your children, frightened and confused.
We come to you aware of our privilege and obligation to
work towards the establishment of your kingdom.
We have tried LORD.
We are trying; but we are confounded.
Where are you God?
Are you listening to us?
Look at us O God.
Look at our distress and have pity on us.
We are frightened. The pandemic rages around us.
Your children are sick and dying.
You have given us doctors and scientists to help us, but we don’t listen.
Masks and social distancing are viewed as evidence of weakness rather than love.
How can this be?
Where are you God?
Are you listening to us?
Look at us O God.
Look at our distress and have pity on us.
Do you see the fires raging and the storms battering us?
Do you see that this earth and its creatures are in danger?
Do you see how profit is put ahead of care for the earth?
Do you see how science is ignored?
Do you see how care for the earth is being replaced by having more at any cost?
Where are you God?
Are you listening to us?
Look at us O God.
Look at our distress and have pity on us.
Do you see the Proud Boys?
Do you see the swastikas and hate crimes?
Do you see all the black and brown people who are terrified?
Terrified that it is open season on them?
Terrified that in this world Black Lives don’t matter.
Where are you God?
Are you listening to us?
Look at us O God.
Look at our distress and have pity on us.
Do you see the children in cages at the border?
Do you see the little girl in an elementary school hallway being surrounded and
told to go back to Mexico?
Do you see the innocent elementary school children, their views distorted by hate
and fear, chanting: “Build a wall.”
We are frightened for these children and their parents.
We are disappointed that discrimination and hate have become the norm.
Where are you God?
Are you listening to us?
Look at us O God.
Look at our distress and have pity on us.
We are deeply sad that people in authority are still able to demean and assault women
with impunity.
How is it possible that so very many people are willing to turn a blind eye?
How is it possible that these same people say that they are your followers?
Where are you God?
Are you listening to us?
Look at us O God.
Look at our distress and have pity on us.
We are perplexed and bewildered.
We are angry, disappointed and sad.
We are sad that so many people can choose hateful rhetoric
instead of kindness and tolerance.
We are sad that rudeness and bullying are deemed acceptable.
We are sad that our children and grandchildren are exposed to models of
authority that are so opposed to your “sedeq” and “mishpat.”
Where are you God?
Are you listening to us?
We are afraid.
We feel abandoned.
We want to blame all of this on "others:"
-those who choose hate over love,
-those who choose greed over compassion.
Help us to make sense of this.
Help us to recognize how we are complicit in the hate and oppression.
Forgive us for the part we have played.
Help us to choose hope over despair, understanding over judgment,
inclusion over exclusion and compassion over bitterness.
Help us not spread resentment and instead choose integrity,
truth, kindness and love.
Help us to move forward, delighting to do our small parts in bringing forth
your kingdom.
We remember your promises and we praise you for your fidelity.
Even though we feel frightened and alone,
we know that you have not abandoned us
and we praise you for your never-ending
love, mercy and compassion.
We wait in joyful hope for the establishment of your kingdom
- the kingdom of justice and peace.
Suanne